(Grace + Truth)Time = Growth

Pose like a cover shot? I tried to imagine what that might be and how to screw my face into such a position. Before the photo shoot was over I had dissolved into laughter. Meanwhile, the Student Life trio from Christchurch had disappeared into the Hub and were now bouncing over with wrapped gifts. “Just wanted to say a huge thank you for the last three days!!! This is like a light at the end of the tunnel. We so appreciate the training…thanks for supplying us with the tools that we can use in ministry and life,” the card read.

We hugged good-bye to our young peers as they headed back to Christchurch, and heaved a contented sigh. Our second Facilitator School was over and had been a success. Although the Facilitator School was created to help people in ministry develop skills in facilitating groups, we have discovered a common concern—many of us in ministry are operating in performance, rather than living in grace and truth. In the Facilitator School we teach staff members, like the Christchurch team, how to create an environment of grace and truth, and give them the chance to experience it for themselves which leads to tremendous personal growth.

This fresh team is operating without a director this year, which has thrown them into upheaval as the school year has made its racing start. Walking in the Light, living by healthy team norms, communicating and working through conflict, and creating an environment of grace and truth were not just concepts we modeled and taught, but were avenues by which the team began to do the real work of connecting, growing together, and trusting each other.

“Oh, you mean we all have to go?” Regan gasped, eyes round. Jacinda and Josh laughed at Regan’s flustered question as she crept to the center of the circle for her seven minutes of sharing. Although it was a simple lesson in listening, the staff members had chosen to talk about a very real issue that was effecting their whole team, and now it was Regan’s turn to weigh in. It was obvious that God had carved out this training school as the space they needed to reconcile and grow personally.

The Christian life is not about doing it right. It is about depending on Christ because we can’t do it right. As missionaries we want to teach and model to students how to do life right, but the only way to do that is to expose our weaknesses and demonstrate repentance, reconciliation, and dependence on God alone. Yet none of us really want to do that. In fact, we live most of our lives in an effort to prove our goodness, and end up being hypocritical at best, and hiding from each other and God at worst.

“If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:8,9). The Facilitator School offers a place and permission to practice walking in the light—to expose and confess what is truly in our hearts so that we might be reconciled to each other and to God—then God will cleanse us and make us righteous, which is what we have been trying to achieve in our own effort all along.

Although they had straggled in the first day one at a time, and quietly slipped into a seat, after days of interactive programs—some of which they led—and lots of practice in building Christ-centered community, they left chatting affectionately, arm in arm down the street. Like many of us in ministry, they did not need to learn how to share the gospel. They needed instead to learn how to apply the grace and truth of the gospel to their lives.

“We have all kinds of tools for sharing the gospel but when it comes to character building we don’t have a common language and tools,” Dre, the Student Life Director here at the University of Otago, explained to the Christchurch team. “These guys really challenged the heart behind what we’re doing and why we’re doing it.” I silently thanked God for Dre’s endorsement and for the eagerness and open hearts of the Christchurch team. Through these two teams God has given us the opportunity to build into all the staff on the South Island.

“How do you envision your life and ministry changing as a result of this training?” we asked on our end of training survey. This answer was written in bold: “Freedom. Freedom to move from performance to grace and truth; freedom in evangelism to look at the whole person; freedom to make choices; freedom to communicate well.”

“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery” (Galatians 5:1).

God’s Tapestry

I have no idea how this large teenager appeared in our house, but he bears a small resemblance to the son I birthed fourteen years ago. On closer inspection I can see that he IS, in fact, a bigger version of that same child. Caleb is now fourteen. Despite his persuasive argument that he should get two parties since his birthday would reoccur the following day in the U.S., we had one birthday party and one cake. Caleb is now the proud owner of a rugby ball and the New Zealand edition of Monopoly, and I am the proud mom.

The staff members here in New Zealand have been doing their best to teach our kids how to play rugby. After watching a bloodied and battered game here in Otago, I am less inclined to having them pursue this sport competitively, but it is great fun to watch them learn. This weekend Mic and Dre, the Student Life campus directors in Otago, invited the Lovejoys and Litchfields to join them on a get-away in Te Anau, where Dre continued his rugby lessons amidst much racing and squealing (from my girls, not Dre.)

This past weekend became one of our highlights of our time in New Zealand. Leaving a day early, we drove to Milford Sound—in my opinion, one of the most beautiful places on earth. Steep, towering mountains rise straight out of the water, enclosing the sound and dividing the Tasman Sea in the west from the valley and lakes to the east. A single cruise ship lingered in the sound like a toy boat surrounded by the walls of a tub. The mountains silence the earth, offering only enough space for a tiny landing and cluster of low buildings. We stood on the bank of the sound, alone in the grandeur of a mystical world as if it belonged only to us, yet sensing that we belonged to it. God alone could create such a scene.

The drive from Te Anau to Milford Sound is 144 miles of breathtaking scenery. Along the way we visited tranquil Mirror Lakes and the turbulent falls of the Cleddau River as it rushed through “The Chasm.” We also waded our way through the clouds to reach Key Summit. Stopping to wait our turn outside the Homer Tunnel, carved 129 meters through the mountain wall, we were greeted by some “cheeky” Keas. The Kea is an inquisitive, endangered, native mountain parrot. Dre says they are the smartest birds in the world; he has watched them unscrew screws with their beaks. We were enthralled by their antics but wary enough to shut the door when they tried to climb in!

The first night we camped out in the valley beside Cascade Creek. We camped, but didn’t sleep. The wind howling through the valley tore at our tent all night, and though we were warm enough, the noise of our tents flapping, and the occasional collapsing nylon walls, were too distracting for sleep–at least for the adults.

Back in Te Anau, we biked, boated, and ate our way through the weekend. Thanks to some generous ministry partners of Dre’s, we had the use of a gorgeous summer house with plush beds for everyone. I even read an entire novel! The kids enjoyed endless rounds of pool and long zip-lines on the nearby playground. We also visited the local aviary and saw the fascinating, flightless Takahe, of which there are only 300 in the world.

On our way back to Dunedin, we took the southeast coastal route through the Catlins, stopping at Curio Bay to inspect the fossil forest, then hiking in to McLean Falls, and out the craggy arm of Nugget Point for the sunset. “The earth is the LORD’S, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it; for he founded it upon the seas and established it upon the waters” (Psalm 24:1). I am constantly struck by the vastness and beauty of Creation. The unspoiled splendor of New Zealand is evidence of the touch of God.

(Eternal) Life Change

“Woah. That guy would never have come to a Student Life event,” Dre said of one of the non-Christian students who came rock climbing last Saturday. The Student Life director in Dunedin,  Dre was elated to see non-believers, new believers, and strong believers enjoying each other and talking seriously about faith.

“This is fun; it doesn’t even feel like work—but I get five hours to build relationships with these guys.” Although five hours may not seem like much, it is extensive compared to the common hour-long appointments squeezed in between students’ classes. More importantly, these students have the chance to experience the nature of Christ, becoming the recipients of His love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness—all His attributes—displayed through the community of believers as we serve them and engage in meaningful conversations.

There is a desperate need for authentic Christ-centered community across the globe. Here on the party campus of Otago University in Dunedin, students face an intense culture of binge drinking and raging sexual promiscuity. The student guys will commonly drink 30 beers in an evening. Women, too, struggle with binge drinking on a smaller scale, but it is the inhibition that accompanies drinking that poses the bigger issues; our staff women told us that the average woman at Otago University has 19 sexual partners each year. The rate for men is likely higher.

We are created for community. The need to be in relationship sometimes drives us to pursue community through sports or book clubs, or through drinking buddies and one-night stands. Apart from Christ and the indwelling work of the Holy Spirit, every community will fall short of what it is designed to be. “Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love” (Ephesians 4:15,16). Through outdoor programs, we encourage Christian students to live together in authentic community which reflects Christ, and we strive to give non-Christian students the opportunity to experience a Christ-centered community for perhaps the first time ever so that they may “taste and see that the Lord is good” (Psalm 34:8).

Twelve Otago students have accepted Christ in the past few weeks. Seventy students attended the Student Life opening barbecue, and fifty showed up the following week for the first Action Group. The Body of Christ is compelling.

Darren is one of the students who accepted Christ a week ago. On Saturday, he and several new and not-yet believers joined us at Sandfly Beach for a program about community. More than twenty people took part in a giant sand-castle building effort, followed by sand-dune jumping and a pick-up game of rugby. “What will you do to invest in this community back on campus?” We asked when wrapping up the event. In response, Darren invited Patrick, a new student with a mixed religious background, to join him at church the following day.

Both men biked through the rain to attend our church service. There, they heard again the message of salvation, and they were welcomed by a new group of believers who were different in make-up—mostly working adults, retirees, and families—but similar in the love of Christ to the students they have met in Student Life. They experienced the diverse Body of Christ that is truly united through the One God who is at work in each of us.

The Treasures of Dunedin

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During this hectic fall start-up, my mom has crossed the Pacific to visit us, along with Alicia Lovejoy’s parents. It has been a joy for all of us to see familiar faces from home. It has been a tremendous comfort to our kids, who miss having playmates, pets, and familiar comforts. Yesterday three of my kids came up at different points to tell me they wanted to go home. As New Zealand begins to feel more permanent and we are back on a regular homeschool routine, they are more aware of what they are missing. I guess field trips to see wild penguins can’t compete with their pets at home—a giant hyper dog and an over-fed orange cat. :).

Mom’s visit and our children’s education have provided the perfect excuse for us to explore Dunedin. We have hit museums, parks, historic buildings, and fascinating geographical features. This place is truly a wonder. If you want to learn more, you can read the kids’ reports when they finish them (grin). For now, enjoy this pictorial tour of our new home.

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Sheep outnumber people seven to one in New Zealand. Merino sheep like this one are less numerous than those bred for meat, but their wool is of great value.

09a5ac0c-c926-4026-9698-687324c5d2d2img_4502The Otago Settler’s Museum is a fantastic introduction to the history of this area. It pays wonderful tribute to the Maori and traces the roots of this region from the earliest inhabitants to today. As you can see, Emma and Micah made the most of the hands-on exhibits!

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6af8cabc-f4b1-42d7-89e6-c8fd19ac7afeLanarch Castle, New Zealand’s only castle, was built by a rich businessman in 1871 as his family estate. Now it is a tourist destination and well worth the visit.

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It is currently Saturday and Emma is baking whoopee pies while the other kids read or jump on the trampoline. Dan and Mark are leading students on a rock climbing trip at Long Beach (not pictured.) This afternoon we will have a visit from a homeschool family that we were just introduced to; I am hoping new friends will help alleviate the kids’ sadness over being away from old friends. The perfect world would be to have all of you and our pets here with us to explore God’s handiwork together!

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Gearing Up for Another “Fall” Semester

Before we left New Hampshire everyone kept telling us how lucky we were to be leaving the snow piles of winter for the warmth of a New Zealand summer. It has been refreshing to play outside after dinner, enjoying long days and birdsong. I will send pictures soon of the flowers here so that my loved ones in the frozen north can enjoy some color! But in terms of ministry, it is a bit shocking to adjust to another crazy fall semester, having just come off one of our own in the U.S. The start of the new school year is always the busiest time on campus, so we’ve been shifting gears back into overdrive to stay ahead of the landslide of nearly 20,000 students returning from summer break. At the same time, we are trying to determine how best to give away the unique aspects of the Lifelines ministry to staff and students who are already feeling the pressure of the fall semester.

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A week ago our Lifelines team helped out with a massive Student Life outreach, handing out free “jandals” (flip-flops) on campus to all the students walking by. The goal was to get 3,000 contacts in three days, and I believe we reached it. Students would come by and fill out a brief survey then get fitted for a pair of jandals. A few upperclassmen even came by sporting their jandals from the year before. We had the joy of meeting students from parts of the world I have never even heard of, and more familiar places, like Colby College in Maine, and Susquehanna University, which is my tiny alma mater in Pennsylvania.

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The survey card read, “We at Student Life are a relevant group of Christians at universities around New Zealand, who are on the journey toward Jesus.” The tagline was followed by four questions related to a student’s spiritual journey and his or her desire to know Jesus Christ. Several women that I spoke with made a special point of asking to be contacted because they want to get involved with Student Life.

The first occasion for such involvement took place just a few nights later, as students were invited to join another one of Student Life’s main outreaches on campus, which involves handing out sausages and treats to party-going students on the street. This huge outreach afforded more opportunities to hang out and engage in casual spiritual discussions with students.

This Sunday ushered in a host of new opportunities for spiritual growth as world-renown Christian apologist Ravi Zacharias came to the Otago campus. Ravi spoke Sunday at the university’s giant rugby stadium, and has been here with his team throughout the week engaging with students, professors, and community members. His thought-provoking topics have included relativism, violence, suffering, sexual identity, and truth. At Sunday’s main event, Ravi asserted that “the average person today doesn’t care about facts, but feelings.” According to Ravi, a new word has been introduced to the dictionary in 2017: “post-truth”. He said of our culture, “we are even willing to use falsehood and spread lies saying the end we have in mind is a noble end.” Why? This is an indication of the total depravity of the human heart. “Either we live by His law or we become a law unto ourselves,” he warned.

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I have read of the challenges for missionaries to unreached people groups who have tried to explain concepts, like sin, that have no translation in that foreign language. We are facing similar challenges today as we try to introduce the One who is the Way, the Truth, and the Life to a world that has no real concept of truth. The very definition of truth has changed.

Lifelines staff members use experiential activities to produce specific emotions and then help students connect those emotions to Biblical truths. We have found that when students experience the Word and connect with God and the Body of Christ on an emotional level, then it becomes real to them. As I write this, Dan and Mark Lovejoy are rock climbing with a handful of the student leaders and some of their “mates,” leading an experiential program on faith as the students climb and practice some faith and trust on the wall. Before the week is out we will lead two more outings. In a world that places such a high value on feelings, one’s personal experience becomes truth for him or her. We want these students’ experiences to be encounters with Jesus Christ.

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With thousands of students to follow up and Lifelines trips scheduled on the weekends, it is all hands on deck. We are excited to have Austin, a recent graduate who is vacationing here in New Zealand, volunteer with us for the next couple of weeks. Jack, the Lovejoy’s oldest son, was recruited to help hand out jandals, and our Micah and Emma spent hours preparing for and serving students at today’s Student Life barbecue while Caleb and Aliza joined in for the clean up.

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Passing on the DNA

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I reached across the aisle to slap Cam an enthusiastic high five. With his tousled red hair and matching beard, he looked like a young Scottish highlander—no doubt his roots reside in Scotland like many New Zealanders. Cam, an Otago University alum, is one of my new teammates who works with Student Life and he had just shared the big picture for the Christian student leaders at their Student Life leadership conference. His words were inspiring: “Trust God that He can do something in a person’s heart that we can’t make happen.” In his thick accent, he added, “How will your life reflect the fact that Jesus is your Lord and King?”

The staff members here in Otago are a high performing team, trusting the Lord for 50 students to accept Christ this first semester. Last year they saw 37 students surrender their lives to God, and in this year’s goal-setting session, each staff member unflinchingly planned to lead multiple action groups, disciple the 17 student leaders, share the gospel message in every appointment and doggedly pursue students to engage with Student Life activities. They are a determined and energetic bunch with big expectations of themselves and of the Lord. I am impressed with their tenacity. What could we possibly have to offer such a high-functioning team?

A couple of weeks ago at our Facilitator School we concentrated on setting an environment for growth. We helped the team clarify their norms and squeezed into a darkly lit room to experientially address walking in the light. We also focused on living in grace and truth rather than performance. The truth is that we need the redeeming and sanctifying work of a Holy Savior. Our weakness forces us to rely on God and exalt His greatness, rather than our own. And THAT is what reflects God. These concepts are crucial to spiritual growth, to avoid “good works” burnout, and to joyfully reflect Christ. More than anything, we want to help the team see the value of being real.

Our Otago teammates have great faith in the Lord, and we want to help them live even more authentically in dependence on Christ. We want to give them the gift of the freedom to fail, that they may see Christ work in their weakness. We want to encourage them to be vulnerable so that they can be truly known and loved for who they are. We also want to give them the tools to minister experientially, in the moment, rather than solely through lecturing or discussion, so that Biblical truths are put to action and practiced.

Dan and I and the Lovejoys were super encouraged to see the Otago team so quickly applying what we had discussed just days earlier. Cam did more than share a bold vision, he took a risk and expressed his humble honesty about his own fears in sharing his faith, and in doing so, the students could relate to him as a fellow human, and no longer felt shackled to an unattainable standard. They could envision themselves in the same boat, taking courage from the Lord in the same way.

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Later in the day, Gracie, another staff member, incorporated experiential elements into her talk on the Holy Spirit, and had students write down what they want to be known for, along with the weaknesses that could sabotage their efforts as leaders in ministry. She told the students that “these weaknesses are opportunities to showcase God’s power.”

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Our Lifelines team also had the opportunity to lead a night simulation to experientially teach the student leaders about evangelism. The activity involved students hiding in the darkness with unlit candles waiting for their peers to find them and spread the flame. Each student had a role that often happens with evangelism: people respond in various ways to the gospel, the sharers encounter obstacles like unbelief, spiritual warfare, etc. The debrief went long into the night because no one could stop talking about the experience and making connections to real life. This was important because the students were about to enter into a week of intense outreach with the beginning of the semester. The event was a huge success and the Otago ministry wants to repeat it with all of the students who are involved in Student Life.

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All of us, our kids included, were excited to spend a weekend away with the student leaders. It was a double blessing to receive such a positive response to our Lifelines activities and to see the staff members incorporate so much of the training we had done with them. We pray that it will make a lasting impact.

The Blessedness of Waiting

“The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the name of the Lord (Job 1:21b ESV).” This has been my mantra since the flood. Our “secure” housing fell through three days before we were supposed to move in, and just twelve hours later our car drowned in the flash flood. The auto insurance agency would not cover flooding, so the incredible minivan that was such an amazing deal, ended up being a total loss. In the hopes of reviving it or selling it for parts, Dan rented a truck and towed it over the mountains to Dunedin. He and Mark Lovejoy, our teammate, were able to get it running with a loud hammering sound, but it left us debating what to do next.

Should we buy another vehicle? Fix this one for the $4,000 quoted to us? Neither seemed a good investment and both meant far more money than we had budgeted. Meanwhile we moved into a three-bedroom student apartment with the Lovejoy family at the edge of the university. The Dunedin staff team came through with mattresses, dishes, a table, and a delicious home-made meal, which was a great comfort. They also secured the apartment for us from some of their student leaders who would not be arriving for another five days.

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Five days. Five days to find housing, decide what to do about the car, and prepare for the first Facilitator School that we would be leading in three days. We know that God is Sovereign, and although this did not seem the most economical route to us, we knew it was His money, and He would provide in His timing. But we couldn’t envision how or when—especially because we were only looking for a few months of housing, not a year or even a six-month lease.

Soon we bid farewell to the Lovejoys who moved into their new home and we rejoiced over God’s provision for them. Instead of eleven people in the apartment, now there was just the six of us. I sat on my sleeping bag looking at my clothes piled on the apartment floor and remembered our home in New Hampshire. Thinking of that familiar place, our loving friends and family, the comfortable furniture and ease of life that is waiting for us filled me with peace. Wow. I was struck by the realization that the hope of heaven should have that same effect on me.

That night we purchased the cheapest van we could find—brand new in 1996. We all fit inside and it runs. I have dubbed it “the Green Clunker.”

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On the morning of February 8th, we were feeling stretched to the limit. It was the first day of our Facilitator School which would run from 9am to 5pm for the next three days. We also had to move out the following morning. At that point we had looked at the only house available for short term rent and the owner had yet to clean out any personal belongings. I had believed that God would provide, but time was running out. I opened my Bible and began searching for the purpose behind the waiting. Why would God choose to wait until the last minute?

God, in His grace, led me to several passages, including Deuteronomy 8:2 “Remember how the Lord your God led you all the way in the desert these forty years, to humble you and to test you in order to know what was in your heart, whether or not you would keep his commands.” 1 Peter 1:7 added more insight, “These [trials] have come so that your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed.”

As we gathered the kids together that morning to pray, kneeling before the couch, our only remaining piece of furniture, I explained to the kids and myself that this was our real test of faith—it is easy to trust when things are going your way, but true faith is the assurance of things hoped for and yet unseen. God was building our faith for His glory and for our perseverance and maturity. We have been in the Lord’s school and He has been strengthening us for the task at hand here in New Zealand.

That afternoon, we received word through the church that one of the member’s father-in-laws would be willing to rent his home to us. The Lord completely cared for us through the Body of Christ: the night after the flood, in Wanaka; during our waiting period in Dunedin; and through the church providing housing both for the Lovejoys and for us. He protected and helped us through the tangible arms of His church body.

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God provided above and beyond all that we could ask or imagine through this home in Mosgiel, a small town just south of Dunedin. There is even a trampoline in the back yard! And somehow during all the upheaval, the Facilitator School turned out to be a success.

In the Facilitator School, we strive to help people grow in authenticity, recognizing that the key to bonding is being vulnerable. God is very clear that it is when we are weak that we are strong, empowered by His Spirit, and dependent on Him. Mark Lovejoy led the very first activity—an experiential Bible study in which participants wore masks upon which they had written what they wanted people to think about them. The study focused on 2 Corinthians 11 and summed up with verse 30: “If I must boast, I will boast of the things that show my weakness.”

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It occurred to us right away that God had brought us to the beginning of the school year in New Zealand, not as super heroes with all the answers, but in weakness and need. I had prayed for this very thing—a humble introduction—but perhaps I didn’t really mean it. I had also been praying that God would make me love the staff members here as I do our team at home, but I thought He would do it by merely super sizing the love I already had. Instead, He made me dependent on this team; it has not been through the strength of my love, but through their loving response to the depth of my weakness that He has endeared them to me.

Little has gone according to plan and there is little we can commend ourselves for, but there is so much we can praise God for.  He is glorious and all His ways are right. Blessed be the name of the Lord.